This is true in all areas of our life, including love. If we love completely with mind, body and spirit, we find love fulfilling and lasting. When we do not love completely with all of our mind, body and spirit, we find our selves in a state of conflict from within.

If we only love with our spirit, our mind will not be in love. Then our mind will be undecided if it is in love or fearful of the deep spiritual love we have in our spirit. When this happens, conflict is created, as to if we are really in love or not. Our mind controls our body. When our mind is not in love our body will not be able to give itself completely in love.

We can also love with only our body. Yes, this gives us gratification and sexual satisfaction. Our mind allows this because it feels good. But, our spirit knows when our intimacies do not involve love. Then our spirit slowly turns our mind against our body. This causes discontent and stress, leading to the relationship failing.

When only our mind loves, it is from a place of falseness. Our mind can make the assumption that because a person is compatible, beautiful and sexual, that our mind must be in love, or at least it should be in love. Such false pretences of love only lead to heartaches and failed relationships.

Divine love, true love, always flows from our spirit … heart and soul. Our mind agrees then our body follows. When our mind, our body and our spirit are all united in love, our love will always survive and prosper. This is true pure eternal love. Only our fears and past habits can keep our mind and body from following our spirit into pure eternal love.

Negative thoughts … fear … will always lead our mind and body out of love. When this occurs, we are able to feel love’s essence in our spirit, but our mind will not let us follow through with our body. Fear is the biggest destroyer of lasting love. Fear is self-destructive thinking … negative thinking. To overcome the self destructive ways of fear, we must use the power of our mind … to understand love is better then fear.

We have to instruct our mind to come to the realization that being connected feels better then being detached; that being close brings more joy then isolation; and, that togetherness if far better then being alone. When our mind begins to comprehend being in love feels a whole lot better then living in fear; our mind will happily unite with our spirit allowing our body to join in a true pure eternal love. Changing our mind is a choice, each of us must undertake.

A wise man once said, we must weed through the garden of our mind to find the flowers. Our mind can quickly be overtaken with negative, pessimistic thoughts that outweigh and out number the blossoming flowers. We must weed out thoughts that do not serve us replacing them with empowering true thoughts that reflect our true spirit.

In love, and in life, we must be courageous. Courage is not being without fear. Courage is knowing how to face and accept fear, turning fear into excitement and enthusiasm. When our mind, our body and our spirit are in complete agreement and passionate about love … love blooms. We can’t attain ‘oneness’ in love with our mind, our body and our spirit overnight. We must each commit to our own spirituality separately, yet united. Loving and growing with each other … in love … is true enlightenment and bonding eternally.

When we ‘love’ someone with part of our being, we are not ‘in love’. When we ‘love’ with all of our being … our mind, our body, our spirit … we are ‘in love’ with all off our essence. This is true pure unconditional eternal love. To be completely … mind, body, spirit … ‘in love’ with someone who is completely ‘in love’ with us is the greatest freedom we will ever know.